{"id":2398,"date":"2021-05-04T16:59:27","date_gmt":"2021-05-04T15:59:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/?p=2398"},"modified":"2021-05-04T16:59:27","modified_gmt":"2021-05-04T15:59:27","slug":"friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/2021\/05\/04\/friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>From next<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/lectionary.library.vanderbilt.edu\/texts.php?id=91\" target=\"_blank\"> Sunday&#8217;s Lectionary<\/a>, the way John&#8217;s Gospel has it, Jesus says this&#8230;  <em>&#8220;This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one&#8217;s life for one&#8217;s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. I do not call you servants any longer, because the servant does not know what the master is doing; but I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There&#8217;s a lot in that little bit from the Last Supper story, some of which is hard to understand. But there&#8217;s a real change signalled here, in what Jesus says about his disciples&#8217; relationship with him. They are &#8216;friends&#8217;. Sure, he has issued commands, but the disciples are &#8216;friends&#8217;. They are close to him, they know his mind. And therefore they are also &#8216;friends&#8217; with one another &#8211; signifying relationships of equal status if not always the same roles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Quakers make this explicit in naming themselves the &#8216;Society of Friends&#8217; &#8211; and in practices like making everyone&#8217;s gravestone alike. I wish all Christians could be &#8216;friends&#8217;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From next Sunday&#8217;s Lectionary, the way John&#8217;s Gospel has it, Jesus says this&#8230; &#8220;This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one&#8217;s life for one&#8217;s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. I do &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/2021\/05\/04\/friends\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Friends&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2398"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2398\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2399,"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2398\/revisions\/2399"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobjanet.org.uk\/bobsblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}